A survey showed that more than 80% of patients agreed that their mental health conditions had had a detrimental effect on their family.
Mental health issues can be an extremely painful and traumatic time for all of the family and have huge impact on a family's financial and emotional wellbeing. When it comes to mental illness, the emotional and behavioural consequences for family members go largely ignored. It's clear that people's mental health problems have consequences for others within their social networks, most notably, their family.
Looking after a family member with a mental illness can be an extremely stressful time and coping with stress can cause a range of further issues, such as somatic problems (migraines, loss of appetite, fatigue and insomnia), cognitive and emotional problems (anxiety, depression, guilt, fear, anger and confusion) and behavioural troubles (changes in attitude and social withdrawal).
According to a Swedish study, one half of family members claimed they had developed psychological or social problems (such as sleeping problems and depression) of their own, to such an extent that they also needed help and support.
However, while the influence of poor mental health on families is largely misunderstood, the consequences are extremely apparent to the people who are actually suffering from mental illness. People surveyed by Priory reported that their emotions and behaviour put extra stress on their family, with one patient reporting that: "my addiction affected everyone close to me." Another mentioned that they "isolated" their family and some even reported being physically violent towards members of their own family. Nearly everyone we surveyed mentioned that their loved ones became upset and worried about them.
Another area highlighted by the survey was the affect that mental health had on people's children. Children are often too young to fully grasp the consequences of mental illness and find it difficult to understand why their parent isn't well or is acting unusually. Many children tend to blame themselves and grow up feeling different, lonely and isolated. Ultimately this may lead to the child developing mental health concerns as well as other psychological, behavioural, and social problems.
Family life can become unsettled and unpredictable as the needs of the person who's ill become paramount. Studies show that a large number of family members have had to, on one or more occasions, leave their job, while others said they have had to give up their hobbies. Social lives are usually the first to go as family members may feel nervous about inviting people into their home and find it difficult to open up to people about their relative's problems.
Dr Niall Campbell (MBBS, MRCPsych), Consultant Psychiatrist at Priory Hospital Roehampton (London) said: "It's easy for family members to feel guilt or blame themselves for their relative's decline in mental health. For a long time, parents and other family members were the focus of blame for the occurrence of psychological problems.
"This was largely due to Freud's early psychoanalytic theory, which states that problems in adulthood are due to early childhood experiences. Other psychological theories have developed since then and we now know that the family actually plays a huge role in their relative's recovery.
"It has always been clear to us how much illness and addiction can affect a patient's family. This survey was excellent in outlining the main areas and relationships that are influenced. At Priory, we always try to treat people holistically so that the family are always involved and understand what is happening."
