Ethan’s journey at The Vines

Life before The Vines

Prior to moving to The Vines, Ethan lived at Priory Hospital Elm Park. He experienced difficulties with emotional regulation following an acquired brain injury linked to complications around a tumour. At times, distress was expressed through unsafe behaviours, which affected his wellbeing and limited his ability to engage consistently in day-to-day life.

Assessment and transition

Initially, The Vines was considered a complex placement due to Ethan’s presentation. However, through careful assessment, collaborative planning, and a structured transition, his presentation stabilised and a move was agreed.

Ethan visited the service with his mother, selected his room, and quickly connected with the environment. Staff maintained regular contact ahead of admission, supporting preparation for his first week. His mother, the registered manager, and the psychology team worked together to develop a personalised plan focused on safe emotional expression and consistency of support.

Presentation on arrival

On arrival, Ethan continued to experience challenges with emotional regulation. Episodes could escalate quickly and included behaviours such as absconding, activating fire alarms, throwing objects, damaging property, and shouting. His mood could fluctuate rapidly, requiring calm, consistent, and responsive support.

A structured and collaborative approach

Support at The Vines centred on collaboration, structure, and helping Ethan to understand and manage his emotions. Close working with psychology services and his family ensured a joined-up and consistent approach.

• Development of personalised emotional regulation strategies
• Introduction of mindfulness and temperature-based techniques
• Regular team communication to ensure consistent responses
• Ongoing involvement from his mother to reinforce strategies
• Support to engage in activities such as Slimming World and community outings

A strong focus was also placed on physical health. With encouragement and a gradual approach, Ethan rebuilt confidence in accessing transport and attending activities, contributing to improved wellbeing and sustained weight loss.

Developing independence

As Ethan’s emotional regulation improved, he began to engage in more structured and meaningful activities. He attended kitchen sessions and developed a clear interest in cooking, which led to enrolment on a culinary college course. This supported both his independence and future aspirations.

He also became more aware of his emotional needs, recognising early signs of distress, requesting space, and applying learned strategies. This marked a significant shift in his ability to self-regulate and communicate effectively.

Daily life and engagement

Ethan was highly engaged in life at The Vines and embraced a wide range of activities. He enjoyed bingo, karaoke, arts and crafts, music therapy, and group games, often encouraging others to participate. He brought energy and positivity to the home.

Positive outcomes

During his time at The Vines, Ethan made meaningful progress. His family shared that he was better able to express himself and felt supported in a way that helped them understand his needs more clearly:

• Reduction in unsafe behaviours
• Improved emotional regulation and self-awareness
• Increased independence and engagement in education
• Positive relationships with staff and peers
• Greater confidence in social and community settings

Celebrating Ethan’s life and lasting impact

Ethan sadly passed away in 2025. He is remembered as ‘the sunshine’ of The Vines, reflecting his personality, resilience, and the positive impact he had on those around him.

His journey highlights the value of person-centred support, consistency, and belief in an individual’s potential, leaving a lasting legacy within the service.